Those are the most important things that I have realized after breaking up with my ex, whom I was together with for 18 years. We did have great communication about raising kids. We never had a fight or arguments about how we should raise them. We always stood on the same line. We were able to communicate through difficult situations that otherwise would have ended up in breaking up. I don’t know if it was more about the decision to stick together, because we truly were good together. But why were we not able to communicate our deepest needs? The ones about intimacy and sexuality that make us truly happy and connected?
That is the question that pushed me to start this blog and start with sexological coaching. To help couples and individuals understand their needs and live happier lives, together or alone. Because a good, happy sex life, feeling connected to your partner, or discovering yourself as an individual… all your quirky little habits and knowing yourself better, who you want to be and being able to do that, alone or in a relationship — that is what truly makes you happy. And that will show to the rest of the world. Fuck what they think. On your deathbed, you are not going to think about that judgmental look on the street when you sang out loud, or when your colleague rolled their eyes because you didn’t agree with them. So let’s dance like nobody is watching!
I will include here a quote from Confucius that makes me think about my life every time I hear it:
“Everyone has two lives; the second begins when we realize we only have one.”
The second life starts when you truly start dancing without caring about anybody around you. So on the other words: when you stop giving a fuck what other people think. Let the haters hate and don't drain your energy in them, it is your life.
Susanna
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