Those are the most important things that I have realized after breaking up with my ex, whom I was together with for 18 years. We did have great communication about raising kids. We never had a fight or arguments about how we should raise them. We always stood on the same line. We were able to communicate through difficult situations that otherwise would have ended up in breaking up. I don’t know if it was more about the decision to stick together, because we truly were good together. But why were we not able to communicate our deepest needs? The ones about intimacy and sexuality that make us truly happy and connected?
That is the question that pushed me to start this blog and start with sexological coaching. To help couples and individuals understand their needs and live happier lives, together or alone. Because a good, happy sex life, feeling connected to your partner, or discovering yourself as an individual… all your quirky little habits and knowing yourself better, who you want to be and being able to fully be yourself, alone or in a relationship — that is what truly makes you happy. Fuck the rest of the world, just be the version of yourself you want to be! On your deathbed, you are not going to think about that judgmental look on the street when you sang out loud, or when your colleague rolled their eyes because you didn’t agree with them.
I will include here a quote from Confucius that makes me think about my life every time I hear it:
“Everyone has two lives; the second begins when we realize we only have one.”
The second life starts when you truly choose to do things you genuinely love. You surround yourself with people who make you happy and accepts you 1000% as you are in a blink of an eye. Priceless <3
Susanna
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